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Recent Blog Posts in May 2010

May 25, 2010
  "Battered Wife Syndrome" and Domestic Violence Allegations
Posted By Pasadena Family Law Attorney

In response to my blog about false allegations and domestic violence, a few woman advised me that their request for a restraining order had been denied or that their attorney advised against pursuing it and that such a result conflicted with the findings that the system was set up to encourage false allegations of domestic violence by actually rewarding the accusers.  Interestingly, each of those woman claim to have suffered from "Battered Wife Syndrome", which is defined as "a pattern of signs and symptoms, such as fear and a perceived inability to escape, appearing in women who are physically and mentally abused over an extended period by a husband or other dominant individual." 

In order to understand this apparent inconsistency, one must realize that the survival strategies used by a battered woman appear illogical, among other things.  After all, the woman remained in the relationship, despite the abuse and failed to protect her child from her abuser.  As a result of the misconceptions and contradictions regarding the victim's perceptions and reactions, it is very difficult to prove the domestic violence.  When and if she files for a domestic violence restraining order or some other legal remedy/protection, she appears to be equally as unfit a parent as the abuser, if not more unfit because of her apparent failure to protect her child.  Her legal representative would need to be well versed in "Battered Wife Syndrome" and properly put such information before the court through expert opinion of such a diagnosis as well as evidence to educate the court regarding the apparent illogical behavior of the battered woman.  Even if this is properly placed before the court, the victim is often the only witness to the abuse and the judicial officer would have to believe her.  If the judicial officer believes her, but does not grasp the illogical manner in which she handled matters before seeking a legal remedy/protection, the court could have the child/children removed from both parents. 

It is ironic and tragic that legitimate cases of domestic violence slip through the cracks, while accusers making false allegations often succeed in establishing that they suffered domestic violence.  

If you have a child custody issue or questions relating to domestic violence restraining orders, please contact Pasadena Family Law attorney Mark B. Baer, Esq. at Mark B. Baer, Inc. a Professional Law Corporation


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May 17, 2010
  The Real Problem with the Department of Children and Family Services
Posted By Pasadena Family Law Attorney

On May 16, 2010, in a news story entitled, "Many tips on LA's child abuse hotline unresolved", the Los Angeles Times reported on the fact that thousands of tips (more than 18,000) go uninvestigated within the time mandated by the State, even though the deadline for completing such investigations was recently increased from 30 to 60 days.  In response, Troist Ploehn, the Director of the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS) blamed the fact that the Department is short staffed and stated, "All of the things that equate with quality do take time." 

There is no doubt that DCFS is understaffed, considering California's $20 billion deficit.  Regardless of the funds available to DCSF, the most appropriate allocation of its funding should be the investigation of allegations of abuse and neglect in those situations in which the children are still at risk.  Unfortunately, this is obviously not where the Department opted to properly apply its resources.  Once the children have been removed from a dangerous environment by DCFS, the immediate risk to the children is alleviated.  Therefore, resources could be cut from those divisions within the Department handling situations involving children already removed from a dangerous situation.  The County of Los Angeles admits that DCFS has approximately 7,000 employees and an annual budget in excess of $1.5 billion.  According to the Los Angeles Times, only 596 of those employees are emergency response unit workers.  Please bear in mind that Los Angeles is just one of 3,141 counties in the United States and is certainly not unique in its troubles.

The government is in no position to increase the DCFS budget in order to solve their purported problem with being understaffed.  Moreover, while DCFS may be short staffed, it is false and misleading to imply that if fully staffed, the Department would produce quality results.  Even if DCFS had all the time in the world and had all of its purported staffing issues resolved, quality would not be a term used to describe its results. 

I recently wrote a Blog entitled "False Allegations and Domestic Violence."  In response, an individual who works with Child Protective Services commented that "many things seem to slip through the cracks… within the Department" and about the lack of criminal prosecution for acts committed against spouses and children.  This particular individual speculated that the problem could just be "plain laziness."  Regardless of the cause, this individual admitted that "lives and families (especially the children) seem to pay the price....  When children are involved with the state, they are the ones to suffer the most."

Family law attorneys are well aware that DCFS is the last place any family wants to find itself.  In fact, many family law attorneys have their clients retain private attorneys who specialize in handling DCFS matters to try and persuade the case managers to close a file before one is ever opened in an effort to keep matters out of DCFS.  This is not being done in an effort to somehow protect these individuals for wrongs that they might have committed.  Instead, the reason for doing such things is because the family law court cannot make rulings on matters with open files in DCFS. With all of the problems in the family law courts, seasoned attorneys still know that the families and children are far better served in the family law court than they would be by DCFS.   

Even in those cases in which DCFS performs thorough investigations, they still manage to get it wrong.  It is luck of the draw whether the investigator assigned to a given case has seniority and is familiar with the ins and outs of the system and the likely outcome with regard to a particular child.  The investigators are not known for properly evaluating situations and could very well worsen a situation by taking a child away from the protective parent and placing the child in the custody of the parent most dangerous to that child.  It is also possible that DCFS could take children away from both parents for no good reason and based upon an improper investigation.  According to the Los Angeles Times, "more than a dozen children had died of abuse or neglect in each of the two previous years after coming to the attention of the department."  Moreover, the Department focuses on family reunification, but without making certain that sufficient safeguards are in place to protect the children. 

We must remember that those employed by DCFS are civil servants and that it is very difficult to be terminated from a civil service job.  I mean no disrespect for those civil servants who take pride in their work.  However, incompetence, inattention to duties, and misconduct are not uncommon terms used to describe some civil servants.  Even if competent, some civil servants are known to work very short days in order to accommodate their private practices and while being paid as full time employees by the government.  Colleagues and supervisors cover for those individuals because many of them are doing the exact same thing.  After all, if you scratch my back, I will scratch your back.  While the American public might keep quiet and accept this type of conduct by certain civil servants, when "lives and families (especially the children) seem to pay the price", that price is just a bit too high for my comfort. 

If you have a child custody issue or questions relating to domestic violence restraining orders, please contact Pasadena Family Law attorney Mark B. Baer, Esq. at Mark B. Baer, Inc. a Professional Law Corporation

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May 12, 2010
  False Allegations of Domestic Violence
Posted By Mark B. Baer, Esq.
Domestic violence and child abuse are terrible crimes, and those who commit such crimes should be severely punished. 

An allegation of domestic violence is made in approximately 25% of divorces.  Moreover, such allegations are more common in relationships involving children.  What is the relationship between domestic violence and the existence of children in the relationship?  Do children somehow provoke domestic violence in a relationship? 

It is estimated that as high as 80% of allegations of domestic violence and child abuse are completely false. What would cause someone to make a false allegation of domestic violence?  It is widely recognized that false claims of domestic violence are often made in divorce and paternity actions in order to gain a legal advantage.  It can be of no surprise that child custody tends to be awarded to the accusing parent.  Why would someone make such false allegations against the person they once loved, considering that the claim stigmatizes and humiliates the person and may require the expenditure of substantial sums to defend against?  When a relationship ends, the emotions involved are anger, hurt, frustration, rage and bitterness.  In fact, when a couple with children together are breaking up, they almost cannot help themselves from somehow using the children as weapons or pawns.  Who would do such a thing?  As many as 4 out of 5 people making such allegations are treating their children as pawns in an effort to seek revenge for something.  If 80% of all domestic violence allegations are false and such allegations are made in 25% of divorce cases, then in 1 out of every 5 divorce or paternity cases, a parent is using their child as nothing more than a weapon to achieve a desired result.  This is fascinating, considering that parents almost always say that their children mean more to them than anything else. 

Considering that as high as 80% of the allegations of domestic violence are false, it is interesting that a person accused of domestic violence is guilty until he/she is proven innocent.  How do we punish those who make such false allegations?  We give them complete custodial control, the destruction of the life of their former mate, and the destruction of any semblance of a normal relationship between the other parent and his/her children.  What about the fact that the U.S. spends $4 billion a year on domestic violence programs and that such claims have been found to contribute to $20 billion in public costs and taxpayer burden associated with fragmented families?  Persons who knowingly make such accusations are almost never subject to legal sanctions.

Children who succeed after divorce, have parents who can communicate effectively and work together as parents.  Numerous studies have shown that a high conflict divorce involving children not only leaves its mark on the children, but also the grandchildren, great-grandchildren, etc.  At least the person making such false allegations should know that the collateral damage to the children as a result of their behavior is virtually irreparable. 

If you have a child custody issue or questions relating to domestic violence restraining orders, please contact Pasadena Family Law attorney Mark B. Baer, Esq. at Mark B. Baer, Inc. a Professional Law Corporation
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